FLOWERS ARE THE TRUE EXPRESSION OF GOD’S LOVE AND BEAUTY
LIVING IN THE ESSENCE AND BEAUTY OF MY FLOWER GARDEN
PHOTOGRAPHY BY SHIRLEY RHODES
Flowers are known as the reproductive organ in plants and when combined into a bouquet there’s beauty and sweet aroma to enjoy. So I set before you to enjoy the Essence and Beauty of My Flower Garden.
The flowers appear on the earth, the time of singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove
is heard in our land. Song of Solomon 2:12
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogantor rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:34-35
I will be like the dew to Israel; he shall blossom like the lily; he shall take root like the trees of Lebanon Hosea 14:5
My beloved has gone down to his garden to the beds of spices, to graze in the gardens and to gather lilies. I am my beloveds and my beloved is mine; he grazes among the lilies. Song of Solomon 6:2-3
A TRIBUTE TO MOTHERS WHO HAVE LOST THEIR CHILDREN TO GUN VIOLENCE
WRITTEN BY SHIRLEY RHODES
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Just a few months ago, a deranged individual with an assault weapon walked into a school located in Newtown, Connecticut and took the lives of 26 young people. Since then more than 3,900 Mothers’ have lost their children to gun violence and will not be able to hug their children this Mothers’ Day, nor receive a Mothers’ Day wish from their children. This is truly a tragedy that none of us can comprehend unless we are one of those Mother’s that have lost a child to gun violence.
So many hearts have been broken; so many tears have been shed because the family chain has been broken. Gun violence has taken many young lives and those Mothers have come to know the meaning of shattered and broken.
For those Mothers who have experienced such tragedy and pain, let me encourage you as one Mother to another, please allow this Mothers’ Day to be a time of release and reflection. Take a moment and look around you and you will see your child in the elements of the world God has created. Look at the flowers as they bloom and beacon you to come closer, see the beauty of the birds as they cross your path, excited and having fun with one another, see the brightness of the sun as the raise beams down upon your body, feel the gentle breeze of the wind as it sweeps across your face and you here in it a soft and sweet voice that says to you, “Hi Mommy, I love you, then you pause, look all around you, and say, I love you also baby!” Now embrace it as a memory of the child that once occupied your space. Know that they are always there ready to wipe away the tear drop from your eyes and give you encouragement and strength to carry on and fight the good fight that will help others survive the tragedy that took their young, tender and precious lives.
Remember the words of Job: We are all adrift in the same boat: too few days, too many troubles. We spring up like wildflowers in the desert and then we wilt transit in the shadow of a cloud (Job 14: 1-2, MGS).
Allow the memoriesof your loved one to linger as long as you like but rest assured your child was blessed to you for a season and within that season take the memories and cherish them.
Allow yourself time to mourn and then embrace life as it is given each day because it is a gift that cannot be replaced. God bless each Mother who have lost a child to violence and may your journey be one traveled in the assurance that at any given moment you will greet your loved one in a unique way, that’s how God have designed it. May you be blessed abundantly this Mother’s Day, 2013?
MOTHER’S DAY ROSE (PHOTO BY SHIRLEY RHODES)
We send our love an appreciation to all Mothers’ for a happy and joyful celebration. Let there be Peace on Earth and Goodwill towards all People.
THE BLACK ORCHID IS A SYMBOL OF OUR BEAUTIFUL MOTHERS (PHOTO BY SHIRLEY RHODES)
THE BLACK ORCHID IS A SYMBOL OF OUR BEAUTIFUL MOTHER’S (PHOTO BY SHIRLEY RHODES)
Today marks the beginning of our week long Celebration Honoring all Mothers for their many great contributions to all of us in this Universe. One of the problems that too many of us have is that we take our Mother’s for granted. This week’s long Celebration is meant to bring attention to the Women of the world and especially the Mothers. If you are not a Mother today, one day you will be, therefore, we all must learn how to share in your pain and suffering as well as the joy and pleasure you receive and we receive from being your Sons and Daughters.
When we come into the full knowledge and understanding that you are truly one of God’s greatest creation, and He endowed you with many gifts, the greatest gift of all was the gift to conceive the seed of a brand new life. For that reason along, we take this time to stand back and reflect upon your uniqueness to the world and all that you bring to the table that helps to transform this world into what it is today.
LET US PRAY: Eternal God, our Heavenly Father, we thank you for sharing with us the gift of a Mother’s
WOMAN OF PRAYER (PHOTO BY PASTOR DAVIS)
Love. A gift that has brought so much joy and pleasure into our lives, by allowing us to have a voice this day to say to our Mothers; thank you for my life and all that you have done to allow me to be lifted up on the wings of an eagle and experience the power and joy of your love and blessings, AMEN!
We invite each of you to share your thoughts and opinions here daily honoring all the Mothers of the World. When you bless our Mothers, God will add a blessing to you. The choice is yours. Give and it shall be given unto you. Thank you for reading and sharing.
THE FLOWER MAKES HER SACRIFICE (PHOTO BY SHIRLEY RHODES)
In today’s lesson, I set before you a very important question for you to ponder, and that question is; “What Are You” Really” Willing to Sacrifice for the price that has been paid for your FREEDOM?” Pride, distrust, envy, hatred, anger, lack of commitment, and unwillingness to love those who strive against you in every way are just a few of the obstacles encountered in life, even when up against such odds, “What are you willing to sacrifice?”
Deciding to step out or move forth requires an in creditable amount of will power and self-discipline, much more than many of us are able to envision in our minds. Making sacrifices requires us to rethink our own agenda, knowing that in life there are no quick fixes. Jesus made that sacrifice in order for us to see and understand that it is possible to reroute the way we think in terms of our daily lives. It is the mission of “the Dark One” to create in each of us self-doubt and when we surrender control of our will we find ourselves on loosing grounds, where we become like a rubber band stretched and pulled so that there is no more room to expand.
So, the question is, “What Are You Willing to Sacrifice?”First of all you must be willing to admit that you are not your own, we are all sinnerssaved by grace. To sacrifice your will or desire to get to know more about Christ and his many teachings will become one of the greatest accomplishments of your life.
We live as mortal beings, yet we are spiritual, awareness brings about enlighten and we come into that knowledge by submission and change of attitude, no longer conditioned by how the world dictate who and whose we are.
What Are You Willing to Sacrifice? In Christ we become new creatures with meaning and purpose, willing to surrender our lives to a Savior who patiently waits. Admitting that we are sinners and in need of salvation is a start, acceptance, and total surrender of our lives brings us into an intimate relationship with Christ. We set aside “sacred moments” to allow the Holy Spirit to minister to our needs, learning to live in expectancy.
We must remember that God is not someone we bargain with; think of your relationship with your parents as a child, how you trusted them in all innocence, or your children dependence on you to meet their needs; Christ is the spiritual connection that brings wholeness, a sense of direction, and is the supplier of all that we need.
Knowing and trusting God to guide you as you journey places you under grace, when its sin verses grace, grace wins. Sin threatens us with death and that’s it. Grace, through Jesus gives us life that is never ending (Romans 5: 20-21). This means you must not give sin a vote in the way you conduct your lives.
THE BIRD LIVING FREE (PHOTO BY SHIRLEY RHODES)
What Are You Willing to Sacrifice? A relationship in Jesus gives us freedom, but we must first be willing to make the Sacrifice. When we do, He releases us from our chains of bondage that have been placed upon us by the world. He allows you to lift up your head towards the sky, straighten up your back, stiffen up your spin and provide you with the freedom to walk through the path of rigorousness and fear no evil. He will prepare a table before you in the present of your enemies, and take you to places that you could only begin to experience in your imagination. Yes, when you begin to live in the freedom of God, and surrender in obedience to His will, the chains of bondage will be removed and you will be free as a bird.
The question is, What Are You Willing to Sacrifice? It is well worth the sacrifice to allow the Holy Spirit to come into your life and learn in obedience the way of Jesus, follow the pattern he has so graciously left in place for all of us to follow. Always keep his teachings at the forefront of your spiritual mind and you will journey this life in peace no matter the obstacles.
Below is a letter sent from Paul an Apostle of Jesus Christ to believers everywhere? It is a letter of encouragement with a promise from God just to remind us in case we forget just how much God really loves us and that he will never give up on us. This is truly a great reminder of just how much God loves all of His Children, and this is one fact we should never ever forget. Now listen to what Paul tells us:
He says, “I send this letter to you in God’s church at Corinth; believers cleaned up by Jesus and set apart for a God-filled life. I include in my greeting all who call out to Jesus, wherever they live. He’s their Master as well as ours!”
May all the gifts and benefits that come from God our Father, and the Master, Jesus Christ, be yours;
Every time I think of you—and I think of you often!—I thank God for your lives of free and open access to God, given by Jesus. There’s no end to what has happened in you—it’s beyond speech, beyond knowledge. The evidence of Christ has been clearly verified in your lives.
Just think—you don’t need a thing, you’ve got it all! All God’s gifts are right in front of you as you wait expectantly for our Master Jesus to arrive on the scene for the Finale. And not only that, but God himself is right alongside to keep you steady and on track until things are all wrapped up by Jesus. God, who got you started in this spiritual adventure, shares with us the life of his Son and our Master Jesus. He will never give up on you. Never forget that. (1 Corinthian 1:1-9 MSG)
Therefore, Children of God, let me Encourage you today, to stand still, look towards the hills from which all your blessings are flowing, calm your mind, allow Jesus to open your spiritual eyes that you may see His blessings flowing all around you. Allow Him to open your spiritual ears that you may here Jesus voice speak to you as he says these words, “MY DEAR CHILDREN, BE ENCOURAGED, GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU ARE FORSAKE YOU!”
WILL NOW TAKE US DEEP INTO THE JOURNEY OF LOVE AND COMMITMENT FOR THE CAUSE OF JESUS CHRIST
Giving God all the praises for His Marvelous Light (Photo by Pastor Davis)
By Shirley Rhodes
In Search of Peace:
If you are seen as “weird,” “strange,” or “indifferent,” it’s okay. If you are following the patternJesus has given you’re on a journey that will take you beyond your wildest dreams, just remember, this journey is about love and commitment for the cause of Jesus Christ.
Now let us see how Jesus wants us to prepare for this journey.
So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts to wisdomPsalm 90:12.
Now let us understand how the pattern of following Jesus on this JOURNEY works. The things that are holy belong to God and are sacred (special, precious); we hold such gifts close to our hearts because they are blessed.
When we are chosen, we’re set apart from the things of this world; we come out of darkness and follow “the light” that is spirit. Unless we are willing to accept this gift of light we have no inner peace, nothing really satisfies the thirst for righteousness. When we wonder about in life, do we ponder the meaning of the many gifts before us and offer praise and thanksgiving or do we literally take life for-granted. Sanctification sets us apart and instills our hearts and spirit with the desire to follow the pattern Jesus gave.
When we stop and read (learn) of his message and how it applies to our daily life, we process our thoughts and focus on what lies in front of us as the JOURNEY begins. God gave his Son so that we are able to share in his glory.
There are those who are always finding fault, pre-judging, accusing, doubting and giving their opinion of who we are and we allow those acts to influence how we live, but that do not have to be. Jesus made attempts, performed many miracles, gave us instruction for life, He was loving, patient and kind, yet there were (and are) so many who still prefer to wander in darkness than make the sacrifice to follow his pattern of teaching for life. This is the generation that seek him Psalm 24:6
Jesus summed it all up this way when He said, “Whoever believes in me, believe not just in me, but the One who sent me. Whoever looks at me is in fact, looking at the One who sent me. I am Light that has come into the world so that all who believe in me won’t have to stay any longer in the dark. If anyone hears what I’m saying and doesn’t take it seriously, I don’t reject him. I didn’t come to reject the world; I came to save the world. Whoever puts me off, refusing to take in what I’m saying is willfully choosing rejection. The Father sent me, gave me orders, told me what to say and how to say it. I know exactly what his command produces, eternal life. What the Father told me, I tell you” (John 12:44-50, Mgs)
Jesus teaches us to love thy neighbor as thy self:
He didn’t just stop there, He went on to say, “Children, I’m with you for only a short time longer; let me give you a new command: Love one another in the same way I loved you. When everyone sees the love you have for each other they will know that you are my disciples (34-35).
Whatever you request along the lines of which I am and what I am doing, I’ll do it. That’s how the Father will be seen for who he is in the Son. Whatever you request in this way I will do it. Because a loveless world, is a sightless world, if anyone loves me he will carefully keep my word and the Father will love him. The Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send at my request, will make everything plain to you.
Peace. I don’t leave you the way you’re used to being left—feeling abandoned bereft (23-28). If you find the godless world hating you, remember it got its’ start hating me. If you lived on the world’s terms, the world would love you as one of their own, but since I picked you to live on God’s terms and no longer on the world’s terms, the world is going to hate you (15:18-19). Fix this firmly in your minds: You’re going to be in deep mourning while the godless world throws a party. You’ll be very sad, but your sadness will develop into gladness (16:20). Your joy will be a river overflowing it’s banks”(24).
In closing, we encourage you to stay focus on the prize and keep in the forefront of your mind that, “THE JOURNEY OF LOVE AND COMMITMENT FOR THE CAUSE OF JESUS CHRIST is one that you have been chosen to participate in and enjoy all the fruits that God has provided for you along the way. Now Enjoy!
We live in the riches country in the WORLD, the most powerful nation on the face of the universe, but here we are in the 21st century daily awaken to headlines reading; half of our high school seniors are dropping out and not graduating, 28 million people are now receiving food stamps, our soldiers are returning from the war zone and not able to receive proper medical treatment, some are living on the streets, seniors are having to go without their daily doses of medication because of the high cost, over 40 million AMERICANS do not have health insurance, and the headlines continue to broadcast more doom and gloom. Where will it all end, and is there a way for a new beginning? The real deal is this, “POVERTY IN AMERICA IS NO JOKE!”
I personally believe there is, if we are willing to set aside our own selfish pride and seek the one who can change the condition of this world as well as our own personal circumstances.
Our government seems to be paralyzed when it comes to helping the poor among us. JESUS told us that the poor will always be with us. Therefore, I ask you this one simple question, “DID YOU KNOW THAT THE POOR ARE GOD’S CHOSEN PEOPLE?
THE POVERTY OF POOR IN AMERICA (PHOTO BY FANPOP.COM)
When Jesus preached his SERMON ON THE MOUNT, he spoke these words, BLESSED are the poor, for yours is the KINGDOM OF GOD.BLESSED are you who hunger now, for you shall be filled. BLESSED are you who weep now, for you shall laugh. BLESSED are you when men hate you, and when they exclude you, and revile you, and cast out your name as evil, for the SON OF MAN’S sake. Rejoice in that day and leap for joy! For indeed your reward is great in heaven.
We see here that at face value, it appears that JESUS was making a blanket promise of salvation and blessing to anyone below the POVERTY line. In this view, the poor are seen as GOD’S CHOSEN PEOPLE. Though they suffer now, they can expect glorious blessing in the WORLD TO COME. And the adherents of this view believe that while in this world the people of GOD should do everything possible to alleviate the suffering of the poor. In this way the kingdom of God is extended.
However, when we don’t offer ourselves up as servants of CHRIST or our brother’s keeper, listen to what Jesus issues out as His Woes in the same sermon. He says, “But woe to you who are rich, for you have received your consolation. Woe to you who are full, for you shall hunger. Woe to you who laugh now, for you shall mourn and weep. Woe to you when all men speak well of you.”
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Jesus wanted us to know, that we have the opportunity to change the conditions and circumstance in which we find ourselves living in. If we don’t step up to the plate now there will be a price to pay latter, this is His warnings in the Woes.
Jesus wants us all to experience the hope and joy that he freely offers to those of us who recognize our spiritual poverty before God. When a person rejects worldly value and embraces the godly teachings of Jesus, then that individual begins to experience the reign of Christ in his or her life. This is how we enjoy the kingdom of God now in this fallen world. One day we will experience the joys of this kingdom in a fuller, more glorious way.
To summarize, anyone, rich or poor (and in a spiritual sense we all are poor), can taste the deep joy of God’s rule and blessing of His kingdom. But doing so requires that we renounce the ways of the world and humbly submit our ways to God. This kind of poverty, an emptying of ourselves of our self-centered desires, is what God expects from everyone.
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Let us live with the blessed assurance that God will never leave us are forsake us. Those who believe can rest on God’s promises and enjoy the fruits of our labor knowing that we are truly a child of THE KING who can do all things but fail. In our knowing and understanding of the WORLD, let us be mindful that, “POVERTY IN AMERICA IS NO JOKE!”
Today, we as Christians celebrate this day as Good Friday; It is truly OUR HOLY DAY FOR REFLECTION. For many farmers it is the day for planting their seeds for fruit bearing. It is truly a very unusual day when you think deeply upon it. And of course yes, we will ask the question, what is Good Friday?Good Friday is observed on the Friday before Easter Sunday. On this day Christians commemorate the passion, or suffering, and death on the cross of the Lord, Jesus Christ.
How will you spend your GOOD FRIDAY?
Pastor Davis walking with Jesus, talking, Reflecting and Embracing His God Given Life on this Good Friday; as a true BLESSING from the God of us ALL, who has provided all things for us as He gave His only begotten son to suffer and die on that old rugged cross, that you and I may enjoy the fruits and benefits of an eternal life…
We at VINE AND BRANCH WORLD MINISTRIES along with millions of BELIEVERS from all around the world will observe this day as a day of REFLECTION. Reflecting on the life, death and resurrection of JESUS CHRIST as well as our own individual lives. Let us pause and meditate on the life and death of Jesus as we experience the pain and anguish that Jesus felt as He hung on the Cross and bore our sins and the sins of the World. Now let us watch this short Video Clip and reflect upon what this day really means to us.
As Jesus hung there on the cross, nails in his hands, feet and side. Thrones on his head, bleeding from head to toe, he was teaching us the lessons of LOVE, COURAGE, PATIENCE, UNDERSTANDING, FAITH, and FORGIVENESS. He showed us that Strength is made perfect in weakness. This next video clip is a short version of all that Jesus did for us. Now reflect upon this.
In closing, let me make this one thing very clear, and that is this, “we are citizens of a city of God which we did not build and can never destroy, and that city stands on this day taller than anything that we can ever image in our small minds.” Before His death, Jesus told us that if this temple was ever destroyed, he would rise up and rebuild it within three days. No one at the time could imagine what He was talking about, because of the resurrection of CHRIST, we now live in that city of God that no man can destroy. On this GOOD FRIDAY, let us reflect upon what Jesus did for us, and now what we can do for others. This video clip will help take you to that special place that allows your heart to be filled with peace, joy, and love. Now watch and pray.
This is our day of PRAYER, MEDITATION AND REFLECTION, let us pray for each other, then reach out and express our love for each other. I pray for you and you pray for me. I remain your brother in JESUS CHRIST, PASTOR DAVIS/MASTER TEACHER!
Sitting down at the dinner table with family and friends and eating a well prepared meal as you
A BETRAYER AT THE DINNER TABLE (PHOTO BY PASTOR DAVIS)
discuss the family problems and current events is suppose to be a very enjoyable moment. But what happens when one of your family members has been plotting behind your back to kill the head of your family? In the case of Jesus and His twelve disciples this is exactly what happen.
On that evening (Wednesday or Thursday), Jesus arrived in Jerusalem with the twelve disciples. The meal was not to be eaten until after sunset and was supposed to be finished by midnight.
However, as Jesus and His Disciples were eating, Jesus spoke the stunning words, that quickly got the attention of everyone sitting around the dinner table that evening. Jesus said, “One of you will betray me.” The betrayer was one of his own chosen twelve disciples, a member of his own family, one with whom the meal was being shared. Jesus words caused quite a stir among the disciples. They had heard Jesus tell them three different times that he would soon die, but that one of them would actually betray Jesus saddened them greatly.
Although the other disciples were confused by Jesus words, Judas knew what he meant. Apparently, Judas was not the obvious betrayer. After all, he was the one the disciples trusted to keep the money. Therefore, the disciples asked Jesus who the betrayer was; “I’m not the one, am I?” each one asked in turn. Matthew records that even Judas asked the same question (Matthew 26:25). Jesus knew that Judas was going to betray him, and he also knew that Judas would not repent.
In our studies we find that Luke wrote this about Satan, he said Satan entered into Judas Iscariot before he went to the religious leaders. However, Satan’s part in the betrayal of Jesus does not remove any of the responsibility from Judas. In God’s sovereign will and according to his timetable, he uses sinful men. But that doesn’t excuse their sin. All people will be held accountable for their choices and actions. Whatever Judas thought, Satan assumed that Jesus death would end Jesus mission and thwart God’s plan. Like Judas, Satan did not know that Jesus death and resurrection were the most important parts of God’s plan all along.
All I can say in conclusion, is that this had to be one hellish feeling in the gut of each family member sitting around the dinner table that night knowing that one of them would betray the head of their family in such an evil way.
EXPERIENCING THE JOY OF A LOVING RELATIONSHIP (PHOTO BY PASTOR)
Today’s lesson centers on the word love, and we begin our lesson today by answering our own question, and we answer it simply with one word: “EVERYTHING!” We were first created by a loving God. He created us to love and be loved. He commanded us to love our neighbors as ourselves. This day simply means that we take the opportunity to pause and reflect and think deeply upon what it means for us to love and be loved; then share our thoughts and true feelings of love with those that mean so much to us. Remember, we are the reflection of that person in the mirror, and that person is a child of God, created to love, and to be loved?
MaxImillion and Tida experiencing the joy of a loving relationship (Photo by Pastor Davis)
Now let us understand a few basic facts about love and being in a loving relationship. First of all, we’re all either in a relationship, getting out of one are looking for one. No matter what the situation may or may not be, everyone is seeking love. Some of us are seeking it in all the wrong places and in all the wrong ways. No matter, we want love. We want to be loved and we want to experience it in ways that will define who we are. Weather we are young or old, rich or poor, we are trying to reach a place in life that will define our happiness, our joy, our place in history, as a man or woman, a family or whatever. We seek love; we seek to be loved, not knowing that; Love is the foundation and the apex of the pyramid of our existence.
Now listen to what God’s word teaches us about love, it says, “If I speak with the eloquence of men and of angels, but have no love, I become no more than blaring brass or crashing cymbal. If I have the gift of foretelling the future and hold in my mind not only all human knowledge but the very secrets of God, and if I also have that absolute faith, which can move mountains, but have no love, I amount to nothing at all. If I dispose of all that I possess, yes, even if I give my own body to be burned, but have no love, I achieve precisely nothing.
This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience—it looks for a way of being constructive. It is not possessive: it is neither anxious to impress nor does it cherish inflated ideas of its own importance.
Love has good manners and does not pursue selfish advantage. It is not touchy. It does not keep account of evil or gloat over the wickedness of other people. On the contrary, it is glad with all good men when truth prevails.
Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything. It is,
Shared moments of love and romance (Photo by Pastor Davis)
in fact, the one thing that still stands when all else has fallen. (1Corinthians 13:1-7 Phillips)
Love suffers for a long time. Our modern “throw-away” society encourages us to get rid of people in our lives who are difficult to get along with whether they are friends, family, or acquaintances. Yet this attitude runs in complete contrast to the love described in God’s word. True love puts up with people who would be easier to give up on.
Love does not envy. If our love is directed toward others, we will rejoice in the blessings they receive rather than desiring those blessings for ourselves. Fundamentally, the selfless love that God calls us to does not involve pride or glory. It does not parade itself and is not puffed up. In fact, true love does not seek its own. If we truly love others, we will set aside our own plans, agendas, and entitlements for the good of another.
Love is not provoked. That is, love is not easily angered or over-sensitive. When we truly love others, we are careful not to be touchy concerning other people’s words or actions towards us.
Love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth. The godly love described in this lesson has nothing to do with evil, but has everything to do with what is right and true. It believes all things and hopes all things. This does not mean that love is blind or naïve. When we love, we may recognize problems and failures in people, but we do not lose faith in the possibilities of what people might become. Love never gives up, knowing that God can change lives for the better.
Finally, love endures all things. Love accepts any hardship or rejection, and continues unabated to build up and encourage. When your relationship has been built on this solid foundation of Godly love, no weapon that the enemy may form against it shall ever prosper. Love is the glue that bounds all hearts that are filled with Godly love together. After you have carefully studied this word, prayed on it, meditated on it, I leave you with the question that we begin this word with, “WHAT DOES LOVE HAVE TO DO WITH VALENTINE DAY?” Now you complete the rest of the story in your own words to the one you love.
BLESSINGS IN THE RISING OF THE SUN SJR201301 (PHOTO BY SHIRLEY RHODES)
BECOMING A MEMBER IN THE CHRISTIAN HEAVENLY BANK ACCOUNT
When we as Believers, come into the full knowledge and understanding, that we belong to Christ and as such, He has provided us with exclusive membership in the Christian Heavenly Bank Account, we need to let our hearts overflow with Thanksgiving and Praise.
As we seek to embrace the life Christ chooses to follow, sharing all, let us do the same with a heart filled with thanksgiving and praise. Freedom in Jesus Christ moves us to higher levels where we have access to blessings our mortal minds can only imagine. Choosing to ignore the vastness and magnitude of such riches through grace and mercy is like choosing to ignore the “promise.” With a heart filled with thanksgiving and praise we enter a realm of wealth where all our needs are met.
In the book of Ephesians, it is addressed to a group of believers who are rich beyond measures in Jesus Christ. Even though these believers lived in faith, they were living as beggars only because they were ignorant of their wealth, theSource of all necessities. In this letter written by Paul the Apostle is a description of what isreadily available to all of us through Jesus Christ.
Now as you read this paragraph, I encourage you to think deeply on it, Meditate on it, pray about it as you allow it to bring you truly into the full manifestation of knowledge, power and understanding of what Christ has provided for those of us who truly believe in Him. This is what your Membership provides for you in The Christians‘ heavenly “bank account”: adoption, acceptance, redemption, forgiveness, wisdom, inheritance, the seal of theHoly Spirit, life, grace, citizenship, peace, in other words every spiritual blessing that comes through a relationship with Jesus Christ, is provided for all believers with Membership in the Christian Heavenly Bank Account.”
Christians should always remember that this is a spiritual walk rooted in spiritual wealth,“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works …that we should walk in them”(1-3); (4-6); (2:10).
We are blessed by God our Master who takes us to high places of blessing in him. Even before the earth’s foundation, he had us in mind and we are the sole focus of his love to be made whole and holy. Long ago that he made the decision to adopt us into his family through his Son Jesus Christ. The sole purpose is for us to share in his grace, love and mercy so that we enter into the celebration of his lavish gift giving by the hand of his beloved Son.
“The Promise” makes us complete by acceptance into the Family, a family based on genuine love and care for one another. We no longer have to wander, the kingdom of faith is our home country, and we all belong here. We are part of God’s eternal plan, as he construct and build his kingdom block by block we are included in the process of laying a solid foundation. We see it taking place day by day–a holy temple built by God. God is a God of immense mercy and incredible love. Through his Son we are alive, picked up from where we are and now accepted into highest heaven with him, it’s his gift to us.
Humility
We’ve been redeemed, repurchased, paid for, that is the Promise to mankind. Through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ we can consider ourselves redeemed, he has paid the price. Following the pattern and plan of Christ Jesus we become one in our purpose, attitude, goal and work. And able to become united and filled with the joy he offers we must be willing to humble ourselves and change our way of thinking. We must “be renewed in the Spirit of our minds” (Ephesians 4:23; Romans 12:2 and Colossians 3:10). Imagine the depth of such blessings lavished on us because “we have been redeemed, paid for, praises our most High God, God of the entire universe.
With our hearts filled with thanksgiving and praise let us be mindful of the “sacrifice” that has allowed each of us the opportunity to share in many blessings as a favor from God our Master. Grasp the gift in love, joy, peace and harmony.
May each one of your lives be filled with love, laughter, joy and peace everlasting. This is my prayer for you, thank you for visiting, and studying with us. We love you and appreciate each one of you for your participation in the building of God’s Kingdom. You are truly a blessing to our soul.
SUNRISE BREAKS THROUGH THE DARKNESS FOR GOOD PEOPLE
Sunrise Breaks Through the Darkness (Photo by Pastor Davis)
Blessed man, blessed woman, who fear God,
Who cherish and relish his commandments,
Their children robust on the earth,
And the homes of the upright—how blessed!
Their houses brim with wealth
And a generosity that never runs dry. Sunrise breaks through the darkness for good people— God’s grace and mercy and justice!
The good person is generous and lends lavishly;
No shuffling or stumbling around for this one,
But a sterling and solid and lasting reputation.
Unfazed by rumor and gossip,
Heart ready, trusting in God,
Spirit firm, unperturbed,
Ever blessed, relaxed among enemies,
They lavish gifts on the poor—
A generosity that goes on, and on, and on.
An honored life! A beautiful life!
Someone wicked takes one look and rages,
Blusters away but ends up speechless.
There’s nothing to the dreams of the wicked. Nothing! (Psalm 112 MSG)
CHRISTMAS THE SIGN OF PEACE (PHOTO BY PASTOR DAVIS)
On this Christmas Eve Weekend, let us humble ourselves in prayer and lift up the name Jesus, and seek His blessings over the families in Newtown, Connecticut as they continue to bury their children that were so vicariously murdered last weekend. We encourage them to remain strong as they mourn their lost and suffer in their grief. Be guided by the promises of God when He says to you, that He will never leave you are forsake you. Be encouraged, that this too shall past.
We as a Nation are facing some very strong head winds from all the gun violence that is taking the lives of so many of our children throughout the entire country. No city are state is immune from this type of violence. But we must now prepare ourselves and come together as one people and fight against this type of evil, otherwise it will consume us all.
Satan, the old devil himself is on the prowl, and is attempting to devour the Children of God. His evil forces struck another deadly blow with powerful semi-automatic weapons, however, this time it was in the hearts of the people of Newtown, Connecticut in an elementary school where some 20 young innocent children and their teachers, were just preparing to begin their day at school. It was truly a devastating blow to the parents who had just hugged and kissed their young children and sent them out into the world not knowing that the hug they gave to them would be their last.
The Cabbage Patch Kids (Photo by Pastor Davis) This is a symbol of the little angels that God shares with us. We must love, encourage and protect.
Jesus had warned us that Satan is a liar and a thief, and his mission is to steal, kill and destroy. (John 10:10) So this past weekend Satan was true to his mission, as he attempted to kill as many of God’s children as he possible could.
However, we want the people of Newtown, Connecticut to know that we here at Vine and Branch World Ministries, with our army of Disciples, readers and fellow bloggers, alone with all the people of this nation, are standing shoulder to shoulder with you, to fight against evil where ever it may exist.
Therefore, we say to you, “BE ENCOURAGED CHILDREN OF GOD,” “For God did not give you a spirit of fear, but he gave you a spirit of power, and a Spirit of love, and a Spirit of Self-Control.(2 Timothy 6:7)
In addition, God wants you as well as all of us as a Nation, to rise up, do not be overcome by fears of the devil, but embrace each other with love, and ENCOURAGE each other in the LORD, and this is how He challenges us to do it, He says, “Finally, be strong in the LORD and in the strength of his might.
Put on the whole ARMOR OF GOD that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.
Therefore take up the whole armor of God that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace.
In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication.
To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains, that I may declare it boldly, as I ought to speak. (Ephesians 6:10-20 ESP).
Now to all of God’s people, this is the WORD of our Lord, as He has spoken it plainly to you. We have ministered it to you from a position of PEACE, PURPOSE, POWER and PROSPERITY, and finally, we say to you, “BE ENCOURAGED CHILDREN OF GOD!” I remain your brother in CHRIST JESUS, Pastor Davis/Master Teacher!
Remembering others during this holiday season, should be an important part of many of the choices and decisions we make as we find enjoyment in sharing the love of God and bounty of his blessings. God blessed you especially in order that you may bless others this ThanksgivingHoliday Season.
It is a journey in which we are free to participate in, and that freedom should not be wasted or shared in selfness,think of your brothers and sisters in need, help bring a smile to their face, because when we spread a little joy we all feel better.
Feeding the Hungry
Our response to what God requires of us (sharing) will be like a chain reaction of events, touching families, neighbors, friends and our communities. Let us activate our faith, love and hope this holiday season which encourages our hearts to continue on this journey called life; of course we will encounter forces of unbelief, indifference and despair along the way but we must move about with and attitude of expectancy in all we do. Let us be reminded that we face difficult challenges ahead and allow God to put our lives in order by respecting the government, be law-abiding, and always ready to lend a helping hand. No insults, no fights, God’s people should be big hearted and courteous (Titus 2:1-2, MGS).
Remembering others during this holiday season should encourage us to know the true meaning of giving and sacrifice; we are abiding according to the pattern Jesus has given, we gladly make sacrifices and share with others, which is Christ like. When people are truly concerned for one another they bond together in such a way it simply becomes a part of who they truly are. Take a look at the book of Acts how believers banded together to ensure that all needs were met. As written: The whole congregations of believers were united as –one heart, one mind! They didn’t even claim ownership of their own possessions. No one said, “This is mine; or you can’t have it.” They shared everything. So it turned out that not a person among them was needy. The apostles gave powerful witness to the resurrection of the Master Jesus, and grace was on all of them (Acts 4: 32-35).
To Remember others this holiday season should be about unconditional love, the pattern of love Jesus gave us to live by. Jesus says, “I’ve loved you the way my Father has loved me; make yourselves at home in my love. This is my command: Love one another the way I have loved you. Put your life on the line for your friends, you are my friends when you do the things I command you. I’ve named you friends because I’ve let you in on everything I’ve heard from my Father. You didn’t choose me, remember, I chose you, and put you in the world to bear fruit, fruit that won’t spoil. As fruit bearers, whatever you ask the Father in relation to me, he gives to you, but remembers the root command: Love one another.
So as we are about this holiday season of thanksgiving, let us remember those less fortunate, alone, sick and in need and open our hearts in love by sharing ourselves through the love Jesus has given us. May you be blessed this season by remembering others during this holiday season? Now let us be about God’s business as we share our blessings. He taught us how to share by first learning how to love. Click on this video clip, lift up your Holy Hands and share in the praise and blessings of real love.
If this message blessed you, share it with someone else and allow them to also receive a blessing. We thank you for sharing in all that God has blessed us with this Thanksgiving.
BUILDING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ON FAITH UPON A SOLID FOUNDATIO N
BY SHIRLEY RHODES
The relationships that you begin is your first step in building a life; the only way to
get a life, is to build one of your own by building it on Faith upon a Solid Foundation, one that will never fail or forsake you. Remember, Jesus is that Solid Foundation. He is the beginning and the end. When you choose to build your Relationship upon this foundation, you would have chosen wisely.
CLOSENESS KEEPS THE FIRE BURNING
Technology offers us many ways to connect instantly all over the world, but when you begin building a new relationship, it is something you have to learn and recognize the need to add to or subtract from. One may ask them-selves, “How do I build a life, from where do I start?” To answer that important question, how does day by day, moment by moment sound? One must make decisions and choices to decide what really makes their life complete. When planting a garden, the very first step is to make sure the soil is prepared, healthy and then carefully select what is to be planted; once planted, wait, as what’s planted begin to appear, nourish and cultivate each seedling to maturity and watch them grow into something really beautiful and beneficial.
The same is with relationships that you begin building, making healthy choices in friends; cultivate them just
Cultivating the Garden
as you would your garden. Give time and attention to those you’ve chosen or those whom have chosen you, soon the relationship start to bloom, continue to feed and nurture it and the rewards can be beautiful. When building that solid foundation remember to add, faith, clear thinking, love and respect, vital for growth.
Faith works in every aspect of life, how it’s activated is instilled in each of us, it is a gift from God. Jesus is the descent of God in our lives; he is alive among us and is for us, not against us, he lives in each of us, our source to draw from. Now imagine this for a moment:
When your heart beats its vibrations forces blood through the highways within the body that sustain vital nutrients for life in this earthly realm. When Building Your Own Foundation allow indwelling of the Holy Spirit to be your guide, the Holy Spirit lifts us to another level or dimension with ability to explore and release such an energy force that leaves it’s effect within every person we come in contact with, that is if they are open and ready to receive the energy as it flows.
In order to avoid any interruption of flow, avoid negative thinking and attitudes, when encountered replace that flow of thoughts with positive feedback such as love and encouragement.
Understanding the principles of faith enables one to seek those ideas and thoughts worth holding on to. Troubles and tribulations that come may seem overwhelming because they are viewed from a negative point. Now close your eyes and focus, imagine that there is a long corridor ahead and you can only see so far, beyond that point just might be the biggest blessing of all, one unseen, that block you’ve added while Building Your Own Foundation.
Faith means reliance, scripture reminds us that, “All things, whatever you shall ask in prayer, believing, you shall receive” (Matthew 21:22). Jesus said, “I am the Bread of Life, the person who aligns with me hungers no more and thirst no more, (John 6:35), “I am the World’s Light, no one who followers me
God’s Marvelous Light
stumbles around in the dark. I provide plenty of light to live in” (John 8:12) a reminder to remain diligent while Building Your Own Foundation.
Finally, Building Your Own Foundation on love and respect offers stability that what has been constructed is tangible and deserving of attention and honor from which the foundation was started in order to continue to grow and produce. When plants are not nurtured and feed they soon wilt and die, the same applies to those you’ve chosen to share in life with. With the birth of Jesus, it was the beginning of a new era, his life here connected each of us to the pattern, a process we strive to carry on; through his death, burial and resurrection we are blessed with an opportunity to grow in grace and choose wisely. Keep in perspective that Jesus is the Corner-Stone; that true and solid foundations therefore, build Your Relationships on Faith upon the Solid Foundation of Jesus Teachings of Faith and Love, putting those words of love into action and allowing them to lift you to higher grounds.
Two Different points of view (Photo by Shirley Rhodes)
I WONDER WHY SOME PEOPLE FIND IT SO HARD TO FORGIVE
By Shirley Rhodes
One thing I’ve determined about life is that at some point we will be hurt, and that is to be expected, because we are human. Jesus often spoke about forgiveness and there actually is healing in forgiveness. The main problem is that many of us don’t want to forgive; holding on to grudges, anger, disappointments gives us a sense of power/control over those we’re angry with. For some reason we feel that if we forgive someone we’re letting them get off easy but the truth is that when you forgive you’re releasing, letting go sets you free. Many do not know that by holding on to resentment, they create a mental bond to that person they claim to want no part of, like a game of chess it keeps them locked into the game.
The Flower of Forgiveness (Photo by Shirley Rhodes)
If someone has done you wrong tell them what they did, why it hurt and then let it go. This can be accomplished by writing a note or talking with the person; once everything is out in the open and the person you’re angry with is willing to make amends, open up and with clear thoughts, seek to gather an understanding of what each of you are feeling. It may all boil down to a simple “I’m sorry I let you down” and I’m here because I want to make amends.
In order for us to be able to put the past behind us we must be willing to forgive. Pride and miscommunication often lead to broken relationships/bonds because no one wants to be the first to say “I’m sorry.”
FORGIVENESS —“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no man than this, that he will lay down his life for his friends. John15:12-13. Love is patient and kind.
AN ANIMATED CHRISTIAN FULL LENGTH MOVIE (LUKE 15:11-32 ESV)
And he said, “There was a man who had two sons. And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of property that is coming to me.’ And he divided his property between them. Not many days later, the younger son gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to[a] one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.
“But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.” And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants,[c] ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.
“Now his older son was in the field, and as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. And he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and sound.’ But he was angry and refused to go in. His father came out and entreated him, 29 but he answered his father, ‘Look, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never gave me a young goat that I might celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes; you killed the fattened calf for him!’ And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. 32 It was fitting to celebrate and be glad, for this your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost, and is found.’”
Teaching Kids Respect-My-Grand Son Tony Byars (Photo by Pastor Davis)
Remember, the process for training up a child to learn respect begins with you, “the parent.” Set the example for your child. You as the Parent have a duty to God and to your children to instruct them in the reasons for being respectful, study (Proverbs 1:8; 4:1; 6:20; Ephesians 6:1-4).These verses should enlighten your mind on what God wants us to know about the proper role we play in raising our children to have and show respect for authority.
These principles equip your children for success in life and prepare them to assume their place in the kingdom. You as a Parent do more harm to your children by not instructing and re-enforcing these truths(Deuteronomy 6:7-9).
Your child mimics what you do — if your child sees you yelling, cursing, interrupting or being sarcastic, your child believes this behavior is natural, explains Dr. Robyn Silverman, child and teen development expert. If you want your child to respect you, teach him or her how to do so. If you want your child to have respected you and other authority figures you must give respect to your child. This means you support your child and his or her feelings. Acknowledge your child’s feelings, and refrain from saying anything negative that can hurt your child. Respect is a two-way street. Just because you are an authoritative figure doesn’t mean you shouldn’t respect your child. Your child is a person too.
Let us be mindful that when God commands us to respect certain individuals it is assumed they are respectable. One of the difficult lessons to learn in life is that we are sometimes disappointed by those whom we have come to respect. Parents sin (Colossians 3:21); elders digress (1 Timothy 5:19-20); governments become corrupt (Psalms 9:17); men become wicked (2 Timothy 3:13). In times like these, we remember that the honor we give others, even the undeserving, is a reflection of the esteem with which we hold Christ (Ephesians 6:5-7).
English: Young saint Timothy with his mother (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
Sometimes the young demand respect for themselves. They are certainly entitled to the same honor which others receive (I Peter 2:17). However, the same assumptions hold for them as well, those honored are honorable and the respected are respectable. Paul admonished Timothy to let no man despise his youth (I Timothy 4:12). In order to accomplish that task Paul urged him to be an example in all areas of life. If we want to be respected we must learn it and earn it.
Now let us look at one of the most common and misunderstood ways that a child shows lack of respect for adults, it is by interrupting adultconversations. For me as a child, this was truly a no, no. However, this is often done when a child continuously pulls on their Mother’s arm while saying, “Mommie, Mommie, Mommie, Mommie, Mommie,” repeatedly until Mommie gives the child her undivided attention. The child has demanded priority over the adult with whom her mother was speaking, and in essence has said, “Me first! I’m more important than you are!” The tragedy is that most parents are oblivious to this very prevalent way of showing disrespect to adults, and they will generally acknowledge the child immediately, even doing so when their adult friend is in mid-sentence.
A child who has something to say to parents who are engaged in conversation should be trained to come and stand quietly beside his or her parent, making sure that his or her parent sees them. At an appropriate time after the other party has completed a thought, the parent can say, “Excuse me one moment,” and turn and acknowledge the child, who has been waiting patiently. After answering the child’s question, the adult conversation can be resumed. The child’s concern has been addressed, but at the parents discretion, not the child’s.
When adults are engaged in conversation in the presence of children (for instance, at dinner), the children should not dominate or dictate the direction of the conversation. The way another generation expressed this thought was, “Children should be seen and not heard.” It is not that children should not speak at all, but that they should not think that they have equal status around the dinner table with the adults. Sitting quietly and learning to listen while at the dinner table is a key ingredient to a Childs ability to learn respect and proper communication with other adult figures. Many children, if not taught respect by their parents, will actually dominate the conversation, making it impossible for the parents and guests to have an adult discussion.
Children should be taught to sit quietly and respond enthusiastically when spoken to, or when an adult shows an interest in them or their activities. They should be spirited responders, and not initiators, when adults are present.
We must always know our place and keep in mind, that we are the adults in the room, and we are either going to be the teacher are we are going to be taught by our children. If we are Godly parents, we know that we must always remain in the will of God and be obedient to the word of God, knowing that everything we do our children is watching and learning from us. A key ingredient to just how our children learn respect is through observation. They learn how to honor their parents by observing how their parents honor one another (Ephesians 5:28, 29), and by seeing how their parents treat their grandparents (1 Timothy 5:4; Matthew 15:6). They learn how to honor government by observing how their parents respect the law (I Peter 2:13-15; Luke 20:25; I Timothy 2:1-2). They learn how to honor their employers by observing how their parents honor theirs (Ephesians 4:28; 6:6-7; 2 Thessalonians 3:10). And, they learn to honor God by observing their parents do the same (Matthew 6:33).
Know this one truth, and that is God will always have the last word on how respect and honor works in our daily lives. In (Ephesians 6:2-4 AMP) the word says this, “Honor (esteem and value as precious) your father and your mother–this is the first commandment with a promise–That all may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth.
Fathers, do not irritate and provoke your children to anger [do not exasperate them to resentment], but rear them [tenderly] in the training and discipline and the counsel and admonition of the Lord. This honor is due because parents have sacrificed so much for their children. They are the guides, the providers and protectors of their offspring. Their love and sacrifice should command our respect; this is why God says, “It is right.”
The aged are worthy of our respect(Leviticus 19:32; Proverbs 20:29). However, it is again assumed that they command that respect by their character (Proverbs 16:31;Job 32:9). The aged have attained wisdom through their experiences and spirituality (Job 12:12). Their lives have been a blessing to their families and communities because of their accomplishments. Their posterity is indebted to them for their accomplishments. We do stand on the shoulders of giants.
Now in conclusion let me leave you with this final perspective, why has this become such a problem in the 21st century? I submit to you that this should not come as a surprise to you because we have a generation of kids raising kids. With our economy in the shape that it is in and both parents having to leave home for work just to make ends meet, we have turn over the raising of our children to the T.V. and video games. Drugs and Alcoholic has invaded our communities and the drug addictions and early death rate of so many of our youth are causing grandparents and great grand parents to become parents to their grand children at a time when they are ill equipped to do so. The children have already grown up with a bad attitude of disrespect for the adults and the authority figures that now must care for them.
While it is unfortunate, it is nevertheless often necessary to apply correction. A failure to do this when it is called for encourages further disrespect (Ecclesiastes 8:11). For this reason then, God has allowed for government to punish evildoers (Romans 13:2, 4), the church to correct the unrepentant (Titus 1:13; 2 Thessalonians 3:6), and parents to discipline their children(Proverbs 13:24).
Let me assure you, this is not the final word on this subject by no means; I will speak more on this subject again soon. It is a subject that has many view points. In my next message I will have others to share their views on this subject until we all get a complete picture on what and how to deal effective with this matter. If you have a point of view that you would like to share, please email it to me and I will consider it in my next lesson on this subject. I leave you with my peace, that you may enjoy the benefits of God’s grace and mercy. I remain your brother in Christ, Pastor Davis/Master Teacher.
TEACHING OUR CHILDREN (SHANIA A. BYARS) PHOTO BY PASTOR DAVIS
What happens when kids grow up disrespecting authority figures? We see the prison system all over the country is over crowded with young children who grew up not knowing what it meant to obey authority. The grave yards are quickly becoming a place where young children are been sent because people have become so fed up with children robbing, beating, threaten and even murdering their parents and other adults that the public is fighting back and shooting and killing these children when their own lives are threaten. Here in my city of Detroit, just two weeks ago a sixteen year old boy attempted a carjack, the man he attempted to carjack was armed and after ordering the kid to get out of his car and the kid refused, the man shot and killed the young boy. This is a tragedy and failure on the parent’s part to teach their son that they must respect authority and not be out robbing, stealing and killing other people. Prosecutors around the country are putting kids on trial from the age of 10 and up as adults.
Respect for authority begins in the home, if your children are not taught to show respect for their parents are other adults in their home and community, they will most certainly not show respect for the government, such as police, teachers, the courts, all other authority figures and the church. Respect for authority comes through the realization that it is set up to help us and not to control us. It must begin when the children are young and can understand that they are loved and what is being taught to them is that we love them and how to love others by the love and respect that they are shown.
This does not mean that children obeyall adults; they only have to obey those to whom their parents have delegated that authority, such as teachers, coaches, etc. However, there should be a deference given to adults by children because of their age and experience.
Respecting authority is something our children should do without any hesitations; however, before they can do this, they have to be taught the meaning of respect and how and why it has to be a key ingredient in all of our lives. All authority is from God(Romans 13:1). Learning to respect an authority, no matter who the particular authority figure is, is respecting God, and is foundational for our children’s future.
As a young person growing up in my community, we all were taught to refer to all adults by saying “Mr. and Mrs., yes Sir and yes Maim,” this was a sign of respect, and immediately set the adult apart from the child’s friends. Not understanding the principle involved, many adults will say, “Call me (their first name).” A parent can then explain that using “Mr.” and “Mrs.” and the last name is being done for the child’s sake, to help him to learn to show respect for adults.
Since a baby has no concept of respect, and feels only its own needs when it is first born, I believe that the only successful way to teach a child what respect is is to earn the respect of the child as they slowly grow into a thinking human being.
The way this is done is first of all by attending to the child’s natural needs, such as to be fed and nurtured. As the child grows, his needs change. He has increasingly sophisticated psychological needs. He begins to express his own views, his own preferences, and he has an increasing need for freedom, autonomy and independence. This is when the adults in his life can treat him with increasing respect and thereby earn his respect in return.
Let us understand a very important thing as to respect, and that is age affects children’s respect. Both Children and adults deserve respect at every age. Here is a guideline based on age:
Babies – They are too young to show respect but when you meet their needs, they learn to trust you. This helps as they get older because respect for authority is based on trust.
Toddlers – They are old enough to learn to say “please” and “thank you”.
Preschoolers – This is a good time to teach rules and consequences.
Elementary age – They show the most respect for adults who make fair rules. It helps to let them have a say in the rules that they are expected to follow.
Middle and High Schoolers – Allow them to show independence, such as clothing or hairstyles, but make sure you have guidelines. They will appreciate the respect you are showing them. We respect you and the incredible job that you have, being a parent.
As parents, it’s our responsibility to equip our children to function well in the world, and if we
Picture of me showing love for my Grand Children
neglect that responsibility our children could easily wind up in prison are the graves. No parent wants this for their child, therefore it is important that we address the needs of our children when they are born and stay with it no matter how difficult the task may become into their adult lives.
One of the most important things you can teach your child is respect. Keep in mind that respect is not the same as obedience. Children might obey because they are afraid. If they respect you, they will obey because they know you want what’s best for them, and the best way to teach respect is to show respect. When a child experiences respect, they know what it feels like and begin to understand how important it is. Keep in mind the saying “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
Respect is an attitude. Being respectful helps a childsucceed in life. If children don’t have respect for peers, authority, or themselves, it’s almost impossible for them to succeed. A respectful child takes care of belongings and responsibilities, and a respectful child gets along with peers. Schools teach children about respect, but parents have the most influence on how respectful children become. Until children show respect at home, it’s unlikely they will show it anywhere else. Although you may not realize it, your child must also respect herself or himself.
This concludes part one of a two part message. Please read and study this as the first session of many to come on this message. I remain your brother in Christ, Pastor Davis/Master Teacher.
I’m just a wildflower picked from the plains of Sharon, a lotus blossom from the valley pools.
The Man
A lotus blossoming in a swamp of weeds—
that’s my dear friend among the girls in the village.
The Woman
As an apricot tree stands out in the forest,
my lover stands above the young men in town.
All I want is to sit in his shade,
to taste and savor his delicious love.
He took me home with him for a festive meal,
but his eyes feasted on me!
Oh! Give me something refreshing to eat—and quickly!
Apricots, raisins—anything. I’m about to faint with love!
His left hand cradles my head,
and his right arm encircles my waist!
Oh, let me warn you, sisters in Jerusalem,
by the gazelles, yes, by all the wild deer:
Don’t excite love, don’t stir it up,
until the time is ripe—and you’re ready.
Look! Listen! There’s my lover!
Do you see him coming?
Vaulting the mountains,
leaping the hills.
My lover is like a gazelle, graceful;
like a young stag, virile.
Look at him there, on tiptoe at the gate,
all ears, all eyes—ready!
My lover has arrived
and he’s speaking to me!
The Man
Get up, my dear friend,
fair and beautiful lover—come to me!
Look around you: Winter is over;
the winter rains are over, gone!
Spring flowers are in blossom all over.
The whole world’s a choir—and singing!
Spring warblers are filling the forest
with sweet arpeggios.
Lilacs are exuberantly purple and perfumed,
and cherry trees fragrant with blossoms.
Oh, get up, dear friend,
my fair and beautiful lover—come to me!
Come, my shy and modest dove—
leave your seclusion, come out in the open.
Let me see your face,
let me hear your voice.
For your voice is soothing
and your face is ravishing.
The Woman
Then you must protect me from the foxes,
foxes on the prowl,
Foxes who would like nothing better
than to get into our flowering garden.
My lover is mine, and I am his.
Nightly he strolls in our garden,
Delighting in the flowers
until dawn breathes its light and night slips away.
Turn to me, dear lover.
Come like a gazelle.
Leap like a wild stag
on delectable mountains!
My lover is mine, and I am his.
Nightly he strolls in our garden,
Delighting in the flowers
until dawn breathes its light and night slips away.
05/21/2013
PASTOR DAVIS/MASTER TEACHER
